Do you know what your deal breakers are? Do we really need them?
Tag: relationships
Podcast: A Convo With VesBlake
A conversation with Ves Blake, the entrepreneur and influencer sits down with amazing people doing amazing things in their industries. We discuss their obstacles and successes along the way. We also get personal and get some great exclusive, engaging and personal stories.
Let’s Talk About Settling For Second Best
As a millennial woman, I can't help but worry about the men and women of today's society. No matter where you are in the world there seems to be a growing trend of being a "glorified side chick". Let me explain this position to you.
Committed in College Series: UK Perspective
Hi everyone, I've genuinely missed you!! I know I've been MIA, so over the next few days, I'll be updating mstomilola.com with the various things I've been up to. I recently wrote a guest post for "Where She Begins", which is a lifestyle and wellness blog run by Breanna Danielle. As you can tell by … Continue reading Committed in College Series: UK Perspective
The Relationship Between Love & Hate
Below is a piece I wrote in 2009. Its amazing how words can take you back to a period of confusion and hurt.
How Do You Decide Who to Marry?
I have heard of people testing their future spouse prior to marriage, and as many of you know there are human beings who are expert chameleons. So, with that being said I’m not necessarily opposing the view and need to test your partner, however there are limits to this.
Permission To Say Yes
I think we can all agree that our parents do not own us, however modernising the historical context of marriage is not a good enough reason (in my opinion), for my future husband not to speak to my parents about his intention to marry me...
Invisible Crown
As she laid beside this man, she realised that she can't find her peace. Wide awake, she got up and made her way to the bathroom. She looked at her reflection, and all she could see were the deep etched lines that led to her heartache. A tear drops, as she realised that her beauty now resembled a roadmap of pain.
The Meaning of Love
From birth, we are fed images of love and are told happily ever after stories, so what else would we want as adults, than for an intentional pursuit of finding our one true love?
She Always Knew
She curved past the dark corners of her mind It was easier for her to live in ignorant bliss than face her vulnerabilities She often walks in the dark hoping not to bump into reality She always knew Fear overshadowed the path that his words paved They danced to the beat of his consistency He … Continue reading She Always Knew
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