I was struggling to decided what my money fears were. However, as I reflected on Saturday I realised that one of my money fears, is not visibly seeing "enough" money in my bank account which can mean that I struggle to let go of money at times. Everyone's money fears will be different and battling these fears is the first step to sorting out your finances for the better...
I have heard of people testing their future spouse prior to marriage, and as many of you know there are human beings who are expert chameleons. So, with that being said I’m not necessarily opposing the view and need to test your partner, however there are limits to this.
“Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself.” ― Harvey Fierstein
I think we can all agree that our parents do not own us, however modernising the historical context of marriage is not a good enough reason (in my opinion), for my future husband not to speak to my parents about his intention to marry me...
Dear Future Husband, I hope that you'll forgive my childish experimentation. I cannot wait for the day that we declare our promise in front of God and man...
If you speak to most people who have experienced infidelity they will all list various reasons as to why they stayed or why they left. I don’t think there is a blanket rule here, however...
My relationship status is definitely off limits and has been ever since my break up in 2011. Some things are just meant to be private. I don’t need my relationship to become anyone’s #RelationshipGoals, seriously that is a lot of unwanted pressure...
If I’m honest I used to think to myself, why would anyone want to go out to eat alone? Let alone even consider going to the cinema alone. There is a perception that these confident types of people are sad and lonely...
As she laid beside this man, she realised that she can't find her peace. Wide awake, she got up and made her way to the bathroom. She looked at her reflection, and all she could see were the deep etched lines that led to her heartache. A tear drops, as she realised that her beauty now resembled a roadmap of pain.
From birth, we are fed images of love and are told happily ever after stories, so what else would we want as adults, than for an intentional pursuit of finding our one true love?
Ms Tomilola 