[VIDEO] The Best Friend Tag

Meet my male best friend Christopher, also known as VesBlake. This video was so fun to make and it has definitely helped me become more comfortable in front of the camera.

Podcast: A Convo With VesBlake

A conversation with Ves Blake, the entrepreneur and influencer sits down with amazing people doing amazing things in their industries. We discuss their obstacles and successes along the way. We also get personal and get some great exclusive, engaging and personal stories.

Let’s Talk About Settling For Second Best

As a millennial woman, I can't help but worry about the men and women of today's society. No matter where you are in the world there seems to be a growing trend of being a "glorified side chick". Let me explain this position to you.

Guess whose back?

April was a ridiculously busy month for me and I began to crumble under the pressures of my responsibilities. Work has been so busy that I’ve had to do tasks outside of my usual working hours, which is not unusual in my profession. However combine that with...

Being a Smart Money Woman

I was struggling to decided what my money fears were. However, as I reflected on Saturday I realised that one of my money fears, is not visibly seeing "enough" money in my bank account which can mean that I struggle to let go of money at times. Everyone's money fears will be different and battling these fears is the first step to sorting out your finances for the better...

How Do You Decide Who to Marry?

I have heard of people testing their future spouse prior to marriage, and as many of you know there are human beings who are expert chameleons. So, with that being said I’m not necessarily opposing the view and need to test your partner, however there are limits to this.

Who Am I?

“Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself.” ― Harvey Fierstein

How To Keep Your Private Life, PRIVATE

My relationship status is definitely off limits and has been ever since my break up in 2011. Some things are just meant to be private. I don’t need my relationship to become anyone’s #RelationshipGoals, seriously that is a lot of unwanted pressure...

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Table for One: Learn to Date Yourself

If I’m honest I used to think to myself, why would anyone want to go out to eat alone? Let alone even consider going to the cinema alone. There is a perception that these confident types of people are sad and lonely...

Invisible Crown

As she laid beside this man, she realised that she can't find her peace. Wide awake, she got up and made her way to the bathroom. She looked at her reflection, and all she could see were the deep etched lines that led to her heartache. A tear drops, as she realised that her beauty now resembled a roadmap of pain.

The Meaning of Love

From birth, we are fed images of love and are told happily ever after stories, so what else would we want as adults, than for an intentional pursuit of finding our one true love?

New Year, Improved Me.

Happy New Year Everyone, welcome to Your New Beginning. If you haven't done so already spend the day (before you return to the hustle and bustle of life) to plan your year. Planning helps you focus on what is important and what you wish to achieve in the next 12 months. 2017 signifies so many … Continue reading New Year, Improved Me.

She Always Knew

She curved past the dark corners of her mind It was easier for her to live in ignorant bliss than face her vulnerabilities She often walks in the dark hoping not to bump into reality She always knew Fear overshadowed the path that his words paved They danced to the beat of his consistency He … Continue reading She Always Knew

Can we be friends?

I’m starting to wonder if I missed the memo, as it seems that friendship has now become the consolation prize for a potential relationship. The fact that the two go hand in hand these days is not in the way that we would generally expect. I don’t know about you but I was told that … Continue reading Can we be friends?

Dream Big

Today is the 31st of October 2016 and to think that 2016 is nearly over makes me pause and reflect on my various achievements this year. There are two months left of 2016 and I don’t know about you but I intend to make them count. You may have composed a list of things to … Continue reading Dream Big

How are you going to win when you ain’t right within…

Many walk through life not reflecting on their choices or their actions; however those of us who are reflective individuals are aware that who we are is a reflection of our thoughts. Inevitably what we allow to occupy our minds influences our choices and our decisions...

Chapter 28…”The world is a book and those that don’t travel read only one page”- Saint Augustine

I’ve been MIA for the past couple of months, but I’m back and I’m another year older. As some of you may know, I decided after my 25th birthday that I wanted to celebrate all of my subsequent birthday’s (until 30) travelling somewhere new as I was becoming bored with the usual birthday dinners (this … Continue reading Chapter 28…”The world is a book and those that don’t travel read only one page”- Saint Augustine

Does Pregnancy = Marriage?

Marry for love not convenience. Marry because you know you are ready to embark on this journey with someone who is prepared to commit to you FOREVER.

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